How to find a BFF!

11/09/2012 16:35

Hey girls Rafaela here again to give advice for girls! I hope u like it

If your a new girl at a diffrent school and you cant find a friend then this is the article for you.

Im going to help you find a friend by giving advice and 10 EASY steps for you.  

                                                            BEST FRIENDS- They're always there for you, always looking out for you. There are many people who cant find the perfect one thats suits you, for example you like sports other one likes makup and so I will be helping by giving 10 steps.

1. Think about which of them is most trustworthy. If you dont have any friends, then try to make some! Always look approachable, outgoing and not shy. Be a good listener, dont be such a stuck-up.

2. Sit down with them at lunch and in classes that you have together, and say HI to them while passing by in the hallway.

3. Get their phone number and CALL them once in a while, but dont over do it. Try to pick a random day or keep it unpredictable or if you dont have a phone and the home phone is always busy try talking to them on the computer.

4. Make sure you know this person for a while first. If you know a person for a day or 2, then ask them over to your house they may find it strange or they can be bad people that likes to take stuff.

5. Get to really know this person. Find their likes and dislikes, favourite colors or favourite activities.

6. If it dosen't work out with your original friend, you will still be better off than before, with even more people to try to see if you like them.

7. After you got the one you like give them a pleasure like tell them there a great friend once you got to know them, this will show that person that they think they are cool, then they think that you are cool and will accept you to be a friend:)

8. Tell this person a secret after you gained the persons trust, if the person tells the secret, you will not have lost much (because you did not mined this secret out), but you have learned that this person cannot be trusted as a best friend. If the person kept your secret wait for about 2 days just to make sure she or he kept it, after you can slightly tell a larger secret. Soon your friend will be keeping all of your secrets, and you will know that this person you can share anything with.

9. Dont try to be a cool or a poular girl in school after your friend will start relizing that you dont need him/her in your life anymore. This is a given, and looks like your trying somthing. Instead hangout with the person you gave trust with or a new girl that cant find friends. Try a shy person who's holding back, they may appreciate somone else making the effort for a change.

10. When your friend is telling somone else a secret, dont just barge in and listen to it. They will find you annoying and will begin to hate you. You need to know your friend might have other friends and so will you if you keep following these steps.

Hope this article helped you with the new changes and challenges at your school hope you get alot of friends and dont forget Celebsandfashion are friends with everyone. If you have a question or suggetion go to guest book or feedback if you perfer.

 

BY:RAFAELA:)