Boy Talk 2 : Boy obsession

16/11/2012 15:45

Hello everyone, its me Rafaela. So I heard that Sofia had an idea of making a boy talk series, so I thought to myself maybe I should help her out. So this is the secound article about boy talk, this article was a comment situation from one of our guests. I will be giving 5 steps to overcoming boy obsession. So here it goes......

1. It wont go away for a day. You have to understand that it will take more than a day to overcome boy obsession. It is like an addiction, but it is not dangerous or painful. The obsession you have will take maybe a week, or 3 so it is not like a paper cut that will heal the next day.

2. Find somthing else, like a hobbie of some sort, it can be a sport you enjoy playing, dancing, gymnastics and maybe it can be something little like art. I suggest that you should do something more proactive than art because all you are doing is sitting on a chair and drawing. (You can always try figure skating, its a fun and cool expirence).

3. Forget about everything, soon you will start forhgetting more and more about the situation of what you have been threw. Sometimes it can take a month of what happend, if you have pictures or music that reminds you and that will sometimes make you cry take them out! You will start hanging with your friends like going to the mall, movie theaters with your bff and you'll realize that you were missing a lot of stuff while you had an obsession.

4.Always no what you are doing, sometimes when you aren't thinking straight your head goes bazar and you start wondering about other things. Before you want to start something that can make you scared, nervous or intence don't do it at all.

5. If you aren't getting the help you deserve then ask your parents, they have been going threw much more scary stuff that you haven't been threw yet so don't be afraid. You should always tell your one good, true friend that has been keeping all of your secrets or else they will think you have better stuff to do than hang with them. So tell them and be happy:)

I hope this article helped you with yor struggles in life and that you are back to your old self again!

By: Rafaela