Boy Talk 3 - You don't need a Boyfriend to Be happy
Hello and welcome to Boy Talk. These are articles talking about ... well BOYS so today's topic is "You don't Need a Boyfried to be happy" I was originally going to make this at the end of the series but then thought that it is important to know this before a relationship. So i'll show you why girls want a boy and how to be happy without one.
Why Girls Think They Need A Boyfriend
1. They need someone to make them feel good about themselves - Many girls have low self esteam so they feel that having a boyfriend will make them feel good about themselves. Also many guys do tend to call there girlfriends pretty and this makes girls feel good and want the boy even more. However if the couple breaks up you could end up with an even lower self esteam then you did before.
2. They imagine a perfect love story In there Head - This happens to so many girls (and yes i'm one of them). Basicly they meet a guy they like and expect everything to fall into place. Some may even begin to imagine them and that boy together and in love. And sadly alot of times the boy doesn't feel the same way about her and this just leads to heart break
3. To Be Cool You Must Have A Boyfriend - This is not true. I know tons of cool people that are single. Most of the time when people are pressered to date someone the relationship only last for a short time. Think about it if you were "uncool before'' you were dating, imagine what could happen if you get dumped so sometimes its best to leave things the way they are.
4. You Really Like The Guy - If you like the guy then its fine to date him. So go ahead and be happy.
How To Be Happy Without A Boyfriend
1. Spend as much time as possible with your friends - they will always be there for you and will distract you from having a guy.
2. Focus all your energy into other things besides boys - Join a school club, learn to play an instrement, dance, try out for sports, be part of a play, anything is fine just do something with your spare time.
3. Hang out with guys - This will give you the same feeling a boyfriend would exept for a few things. It would also fill that void you feel when your single but without having to date.
So I hope I was able to show you that your fine without a boyfriend. Hopefully you will try your best to follow my steps and know that although you may not have the guy of your dreams every thing will be fine. BY: SOFIA